"well... i want to... rest first... and then maybe find a job..."
"abeh kau tanak belajar lagi... as in sambung U..?"
"maybe tak ah... sbb aku rasa... in the future kalau aku dah kahwin sume... degree tu... tk serve any purpose untuk aku.... and aku ada feeling kalau aku gi U... aku stop halfway..
unless... kalau kau keje and take part-time degree... baru kira kau punya studies.. and work.. dua2 kau dapat ah... tu kalau kau leh commit".
what she said... was something really... logical...
because as a muslimah.. main responsibility is to take care of the house... (yes, im talking after marriage laa)
if... for example.. me.. as a dentist, i will work 8-5 everyday. if i have a child... i dont think i can manage it to be at work and then at home i will still have to cook... kemas-kemas... take care of my child...
so if in the end i will have to stop workin'... what good is the degree i studied for like 4 yrs. :/
so why will i choose to stop working if i cannot take care of the house?
its because again yeah... working is not a compulsary for me... im a muslimah wife... the only work i have to do is my work at home..
the family won't be as wealthy.. of course.. esp now in spore... but the family won't die just because i dont go out and work.
why am i talking about this?
because its really something to think about...
posted by Ruqa @ 5:06 PM
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